When We Start Loving...

To those who have been truly loving this could be an additional thoughts of which I find to be enlightening in the process.

To any man and woman who were just learning to understand the element of love and the process involve in it - let this blog help you realize a little bit of what this so called ' loving ' is all about.

To engage in the issue of love and the act of loving are always 2 different thing. We can love verbally, intellectually, visually and instinctively yet failed to act upon it. This is not a complete failure yet, but we do have reasons to believe that a love that cannot find expression in any form will diminish its validity and value. Therefore, we can fairly accept that love is non-existent if its happening internally.

To have correct understanding of its nature - one must surely contemplate on it, define it completely, internalize it longer, and when it is properly understood - then work and act upon it. This will save you great amount of energy in attending to your target of affection. No matter who they were, it could be a place, thing or a creature - as long as it is done correctly and with right motivation. For sure the outcome will be successful and very interesting.

To love - there's a need for clarification of motives, the many whys?, the timings, the target of affection, location, characteristic, and your own ability to relate. We have to give them extra consideration - so that we will never missed out details. Remember, that to love - is more like a 'job' that needs attention and workable timetable in order for us to really made it to the end.
We have to be sure of ourselves and our strenght to cope-up with the challenges. Love and the action behind it, is sometimes - too stressful and the demand is so high that many meet failure along the process. Loving is actually an ' all sacrifice actions to the lover ' and a pressure to the beloved.

This is an incredible situation, a larger than life circumstances that needs high spirited effort - sometimes too Herculean! If we'll look at the life of those who have been famous in their love story; like Romeo & Juliet or even Titanic - Love and loving is a die hard event and it is actually the most critical period of one's life when we found the love we're searching for.

I just hope that we'll be successful in our quest. Remember, that Love is always at the peak, on top of every-where. It is here, but we can't just talk about it, nor argue, or even flaunt it. Love is kinda Mt.Everest in its physical nature and Heavenly in its Divine nature. So, let us evaluate our stand and position if we wish to face the challenge. Some say it is like the most precious jewel, stone, or pearl - that once found, is considered to be the most treasured possessions one will ever have.

But also let's not look at it as something to hard to achieve or to attained. Love might be too high or too powerful to handle but when we give our self a chance to start learning it, we will eventually be able to walk along the path. Love is a selfless path and one great sacrifice we'll do is to drop the very idea of our ego. Because we can't love if we only need self-gratification, or the fulfillment of our own desire. That is not possible and impossible to discover love. It's true!

We can love intellectually and verbally but with zero actions - then it's useless to love. That kind of love will never bear fruits and will just die instantly. Some last for few weeks, or few months or even 50-60 years then it just vanish and forgotten. Of course, we do not wish to be in that situation, so what we need to do most and foremost is for us to give ourselves a humbling moment to figure things out, whether we do need to love and be ready to share it freely and selflessly... if we can do that, then I say we are more than ready!

Best of Love! :)